What OkCupid needs is a box you can check to indicate that you can't deal with fat people, and then another box you can check so you don't see the profiles of the people who checked the first box. Because it happens distressingly often that I'll see a dude who looks pretty good, and he reads books and works for the UN and likes to go sailing or whatever interesting qualities, but whoops, he answered That One Question by saying that being fat is a dealbreaker -- or, confusingly, "yes, but only if they were obese," as if that word had any meaning. Anyway, today's mandatory man is not like that, and in fact specifies in his profile that he's looking for people who aren't transphobes, ablists, or fat-shamers, so my voluminous panties are already damp! He says he graduated college with four majors and describes himself as a "good egg," which I approve of. He looks kind of pensive in all his photos, and I like that too. I'm pretty pensive myself much of the time.